Make A Decision

Im a Cancerian Male and am torn between a Taurean Female and a Piscean Female - i would never hurt either and am friendly in the gentlemanly sense with both - Please decide.

I am currently working as an Attorney for a small law firm--I am a new attorney (graduated in 2011), and have been with this firm for 4 months. The problems I have are as follows--1) I am working in a practice area that I do not enjoy and can not see myself doing long term; 2) there is a complete lack of training and direction in this job; 3) low salary; 4) uncertain financial stability of the firm; 5) pressure to bring in new business.

I have recently been presented with an opportunity to accept a job in a city about 3-4 hours away. The job would be working for the State government. It is in a much more prestigious practice area, better salary (at least initially), and would seem to give me a greater potential for long term career options.

The issue I have is that my boyfriend was planning on moving to join me in my current city. I'm torn as to what to do/what is fair--ask him to move with me to this small town for me to take this new job offer, or stick it out in my current job since it is located where he originally was excited about/planning on moving to? I'm unhappy in my current job, not sure if the new job would make me happy, but want to make sure my boyfriend is happy too. What do I do?

I left a temporary job at a bank for a permanet job at a sailing club - the role is a job share. I dont get on with the women i job share with and there is no structure to the job, so i dont feel comfortable. 2 weeks ago i rang my boss to see if i could get my job back and they said yes but i would have to wait until a position become available. Today they have texted me to say that a position has become available and they would be ring me latter tonight. Which way should i go? I have only been in the new role for 4 weeks. Help - Tracy

I need help what college to go to. I am going for secondary education with a degree in chemistry. it is between four schools and i have no clue which to pick. all the campus are beautiful, all are giving around the same amount of money, and the price in total are very similar. the colleges are Monmouth university, Fairly Dickinson university, Niagara university, and Stockton.

Please help

I feel like my head is going to explode!!!! Me and my partner were planning on moving to the lake district in a few years... after a few unfortunate events recently my partner asked me what Im waiting for and I said her to leave her job as I thought my contract was up in a few weeks. She has now said she wants to go in May 2012 which was brilliant ... except now ive found out I was going to be kept on at my job which I absolutly love and i love the people I work with. Now I dont know fi I want to go or not. Arrggh what is wrong with me? Ive wanted to live in the lakes for years and now i can i want to stay here for a JOB! This isnt like me at all! I would normally say Ohwell its just a job there is always more! I dont know what to do!

I need help choosing which path to follow. Lately i have not been able to sleep and I think about what my purpose in life is. What are my goals and dreams in my life. I really have none, my degree is in accounting and finance which is great but i did not grow up wanting that to be me passion or dream. The only dream I can come back to is becoming a soccer player and playing college soccer. I was injured in high school which didn't allow me to play but as of right now I have the ability to do it if I work very hard. I just don't know if I should leave everything in my life my best friends who are like family and a place I call home to follow this dream. I don't know how it will work out but I just cannot decide to follow my dream or stay on the path that i am on now. I have a great life right now but it is just missing something and this might be it. So do I leave everything behind and follow my dream or be content with what I have?

HELP! Messed up situation... i split up with my ex boyf in sept last year! i ended the relationship as he was being too needy and acted in a jealous manner every time we were out together. We wer both devastated when it ended but i could no longer put up with his possessive behaviour. My family and friends all loved him n didnt realise the pressure i had been under! Since finishin he has moved to Australia for work! We r still in contact and he feels he has matured a lot and realised that his behaviour was driving us apart! he says he still loves me and i know i still love him too. i have a good job at home but miss him so much. What should i do? should i go to oz and give it another go? So confused...

i need to decide whether i should move back to ireland or not havnt lived there in over 15 years

I am a 25 year old male who worked as a production assistant on a major tv show but the show ened the producer of the show said she would have some work for me on her new show in may. the problem is its in california a long ways from my family and girl friend should i take the job offer in LA with no health benefits . I am sort of afraid of living in such a big city by my self ,or should i go back to my old job while i was in college with health benefits as a bakery helper.

Hi all,
I have a dilema that i wish to get some opinions on. I met this girl on a hiking trip last year in my home town and it turns out she's American (I'm Canadian). After a month we started to talk on facebook a lot and eventually this grew into skype chats, phone chats, and everything. We soon got very close and even sent each other gifts on Christmas. Eventually, we confessed to each other that we like each other but she's always hesitant to make our relationship official because we're long distance first of all and she doesn't want to be tied down to any guys yet. She says she enjoys her freedom and is not looking for a committed relationship. I let it slide as i agreed that we're long distance but i enjoy talking to her every day over the phone or over skype. We got very close and she was even my Valentines this year, even though its long distance and there is really isn't much than just a title. But now she's gone to Australia for an exchange program. With all the new people she's meeting i am so scared that i will lose her.... and just yesterday she met this really nice guy on a cruise that she told me about it. I am actually planning to go visit her too in April and i've booked all the air plane tickets and arrangements, but today we got into a small fight cause i told her i wasn't happy about the fact she met some one that she's commenting on so much about. She says he's caring, nice, and very sweet just like me. That made me very jealous... and i told her i wasn't happy about it... again she stressed that we're not in a committed relationship and she hates how i make her feel guilty for meeting new people. I apologized because i wished she'll have as much fun as possible. Does any one have some thoughts on should i be scared at all? or am i just being a little bitch being afraid at the smallest sign of danger?

Should i eat a spicy chicken sandwhich or a soft pretzel.?

The most popular guy in school asked me to hook up, but he was kidding. We were just talking and he said he wanted to talk to me more and wanted my number. I didnt give it to him cause im grounded from my phone(long story)..I'm friends with only a couple people in his group. My group is small but i still know a lot of people. We arent really invited to parties- im in high school. But I think i like him and i'm not sure if he likes me back. He messaged me on facebook.. and we talk alot about serious things, and im myself around him. I feel comfortable and not nervous, its really fun. But im not sure what i should do.. should i talk to him more? or just stop talking with him..

I have accepted a job 1000 miles from my home. I have left my wife and kids there by themselves. I am having the worst time without them. The thought f them without me has distracted me greatly to the point I do not want the job. What shoul I do

Should i go to scotland or canada for uni?

Should I go buy liquor or watch Shaun of the Dead?

Should I go to graduate school at UBC in Vancouver or at Queens in Kingston? UBC has a slightly higher ranking than Queens. I also love snowboarding, so it would be great to be so close to the mountains in Vancouver. However Queens is also a great school, and the student life there is supposed to be better. Also one of my best friends will be in the same program as me if I go to Queens. Help!

Should I go to Europe (Spain, Italy, and France) or get a car thats mine to use in high school? I can't have both or any weird combination. It's either one or the other, all or nothing. HELP.

Keep in mind, if I go to Europe, ill have to borrow a car (which will be available a good portion of the time, and I can get rides from friends) but I'll have to go to a camp over summer to get used to being away from home.

If I get the car, I have to pay for gas and insurance (nbd) but its all mine to use whenever I need it. But, I won't be able to go to those places and possibly miss out on the oppertunity of a lifetime.

I've been offered two different teaching jobs. One is in Japan and the other is in Thailand. My "girlfriend" lives in Japan. We met a year ago in America but have been apart for nearly 9 months. Needless to say I've fallen out of love with her, but she is still expecting me to come to Japan. I know a little Japanese but not enough to have a conversation. I get paid well but have to pay for a car and a lot for rent. I won't be living in a big city, more like a suburb so it will be more difficult to meet people I think. But I could save more money but risk the chance of being lonely.

The job in Thailand starts in April. I would be working in some part of Bangkok. There are parts that are really upscale but also really trashy parts of bangkok. I could afford to buy a nicer apartment because of the exchange rate and my salary. The weather is really hot,but there is also a chance to go to beaches. I have a really good friend that lives in Bangkok that could introduce me to other people. I don't speak any Thai and know little about the company that's offered me the job other than it's the best company of its kind in Thailand.

Where should I go?
I just want to go have a good experience for a year and not be bored out of my mind.

My ex and I are going through a divorce. He's telling me to get a place to house our 2 dogs of 6 years. The problem is I already care for our 2 cats and my current place is small and will not let me have dogs. Should I move into a 2-bedroom with my best friend (she is a complete mooch, and most likely will be a bad roommate)- or should I let him have the dogs (he never walks them- and he will most likely dump them at his dads place across the country... or worse). He refuses to allow visitation rights of any kind- so if I give them up- I will most likely never see them again. I love my pups- I just can't afford the time and money to house them on my own. So, should I move in with the mooch friend, or let the dogs go?

Ok, I have been dreaming of going to an art school for all my life and...I got in. Problem is my major subjects I can either take Performance(Acting, Voice and Movement) or Design&Drawing. I love both very much and I can't imagine going without them. My carrer aspiration is to be a Writer/Director/Author and Enterprenuer.